Sunday's readings can be found here.
When we look at the crèche, it is easy to think that the life of the Holy Family was plastic — almost like the material out of which the little figures are made. Of course, we know the story of how Jesus was born in a manger in Bethlehem; we know that St. Joseph had to take Our Lady and the Child Jesus to Egypt to flee the “Massacre of the Innocents” (the gospel reading this Sunday); we know that their lives were not easy. However, it is still difficult to imagine them as human beings. Yes, they lived in perfection and without sin, but that did not mean they did not laugh or have “bad days” or play together as a family.
I believe there are several reasons the Church celebrates this feast so near the Solemnity of the Nativity of Our Lord. One reason is to remind us that the Holy Family was not angelic; they were, in fact, humans. In the fifth joyful mystery of the holy rosary (Luke 2:41-52), the Holy Family goes on their yearly pilgrimage to Jerusalem. Notice: St. Joseph is not like a lazy dad who stays at home watching football and drinking beer while the wife and kids go to church. He accompanies them to worship and to offer sacrifice. Eventually, Jesus gets lost in the massive amount of crowds. Does this mean Mary is a terrible mother or Joseph is a terrible [foster] father? No. But it means they were human, and things like this happen to human families — even to holy human families.
Jesus goes to the Temple to converse with the doctors about the Law and Prophets — and all who heard him were astounded at his understanding and his answers (Luke 2:47). (This is a reminder to elders that just because a person is young does not mean that that person has nothing meaningful to say.) When Our Lady finds the Child Jesus, He explains that He must be in His Father’s house. Nevertheless, He goes with Our Lady and St. Joseph and is obedient to them. And Our Lady ponders all these things in her Immaculate Heart (Luke 2:51).
This feast helps us see the Holy Family as a model for our family life. Yes, they were perfect in their obedience to God’s will, but they had problems and difficulties like we have. Priests hear so many confessions of people who struggle with family problems and hurt [and are hurt by] the ones they love. The people we love the most can sometimes be the ones hardest to live with! And yet, the Holy Family shows us that when we strive for mutual respect and obedience, we can achieve virtue and allow the Holy Family to perfect our own fallen family. Let us imitate Jesus, Mary and Joseph in our desire for a holy family – a family of saints – and always ponder – like the Blessed Virgin – the life of Jesus in our hearts.